Dahlia was running around the house screaming and crying. “I hate her! I hate her! I will __36__   play with her again!” Finally, her steps slowed,  __37__  she told her father what had happened. He listened attentively.   __38__   she stopped, he asked, “Is there __39__  else?” Dahlia added more details and began  __40__  bitterly again. Father was listening. When Dahlia   __41__  talking, he said, “It must __42__ you to be made fun of like this by your best friend Tina.” Dahlia  __43__  her father’s embrace（拥抱）and support as she cried  __44__  more in his arms. Then as  __45__   as the storm of tears began, she was finished. She got up and  __46__  announced, “Daddy, did you know that tomorrow Tina and I are going together to the beach? We are  __47__   a log house there with Adam and Tom, I will tell Tina before we go that I   __48__   ruin her work again, and I’m sure she will be  __49__ to me. ”
　　Why was this encounter (sudden meeting) so successful? How did Dahlia __50__  her sadness so completely and realize her responsibility in the matter __51__  her own?
　　There were three main parts in her father’s reaction that   __52__  : (A) Attention (B) Respect (C) Trust. He gave his daughter __53__ attention and took her seriously as she   __54__  her feelings. He respected her by not coming with words of wisdom, advice or help. He validated（证实）the feelings she __55__ . And he trusted her to do and say what she needed in order to lead herself toward resolution of her emotions.

A．hardly B．seldom C．ever D．never

A．so B．but C．and D．then

A．Before B．When C．While D．Since

A．something B．anything C．everything D．nothing

A．crying B．running C．talking D．saying

A．kept B．started C．stopped D．hated

A．hurt B．ache C．injure D．wound

A．got B．received C．accepted D．admitted

A．many B．some C．any D．no

A．soon B．quickly C．suddenly D．fast

A．surprisingly B．angrily C．sadly D．cheerfully

A．building B．buying C．making D．repairing

A．shouldn’t B．won’t C．daren’t D．can’t

A．polite B．cruel C．rude D．nice

A．get over B．get away C．get along D．get through

A．for B．on C．by D．in

A．did B．followed C．went D．worked

A．full B．incomplete C．half D．undivided

A．sent out B．threw out C．put out D．poured out

A．expressed B．showed C．said D．strengthened